Her CV doesn't scream Bhansali, Johar or Chopra yet Bollywood likes Ayesha Takia, thankfully so. On a sunny noon, we caught this fringe face horsing around on the sets of Sujoy Ghosh's Home Delivery and pinned the 'all-smiles' star for a chat on the kind of guys she likes. We enter into boyzone and ditto her performances, Ayesha doesn't disappoint The one thing that you look for in a guy…
“Ah, this one's easy” she chuckles. “The one thing I look for in a man is respect. Without respect, there is just no love!” Ayesha declares. “I have to be able to respect the man for whatever reason it be, either because of the way he is or what he has achieved, without that, there is no step for the relationship forward” she says with an air of finality to her thought.
An ideal man would be…
I think what every woman looks for in a man is the feeling of being happy. If a guy can make the woman feel happy, positive and better, then I think that is the right guy. Each one of us looks for positivity in our companion. If the man can make you feel complete, then he is the kind of guy I think every woman should have!
Do looks matter?
“Yes…for exactly 5 minutes and then its over. Looks fade in a matter of few seconds. I could care less even if it were Tom Cruise and he gave me attitude, I don't want to talk to him then! I think a person who is genuine and honest is far more attractive to me. And I say this in all honesty, attraction can survive on looks, not relationships!
Do you believe, 'There is a successful woman behind every successful man!'
“I think there are lot many people behind many successful people. And unlike what some like to believe, each of us need the support, strength, steel and faith of others and men & women are no different. You require that one person who believes in you more than you do! I think it's that faith which makes a successful you and me.
Who's the love of your life?
I dislike talking about my personal life for the simple reason that, it's then the date diary of Ayesha Takia that will matter from then on. I want people to talk about my films not the number of times I hitched up with a guy. In this regard, I like to pick up a leaf from Ash's book, every time the press has spiked her about her relationship; she has maintained a stiff upper lip. She likes to keep her personal life just that, personal. I am a lot like that!
Do you believe, 'It's a man's world'
To a certain extent, it is, can't shut your eye to that. But one has to accept that certain areas are going to be male-dominated. We working in the film industry feel the pinch even more but you got to take it with a pinch of salt. But things are changing for the better and I am sure we will see a lot more of the fairer sex in all fields. Also, as long as we are being given a fair deal, I don't think it bothers me!
The one man you admire a lot…
Shahrukh Khan! It is rare that you see such charisma, intelligence and talent all bundled into a single person. It is an understatement to say that Shahrukh is charisma unlimited but the way he has handled his popularity is what amazes me! His performances, his conversations, his eyes, every single thing is a turn on! I admire him a lot, I really do.
Courtesy: India FM
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